Many years ago, one of my crazy, mystical
friends told me that our life changes every seven years.
I recently discovered an astrological analysis
of the ten stages of life, whereby our life changes every seven years based on
celestial bodies. Upon close scrutiny, it also seems to parallel my life.
Perhaps some of my mystical friends aren't really crazy after all.
The Moon Age -- (1 to 7 years)
In the Tarot, the moon reflects unforeseen
peril. There is plenty of unforeseen peril in a new born human entity. The
child is in a fluid psychological state -- helpless and vulnerable. The early
ego is formed by fluctuating urges, affected by the surrounding environment.
In my Moon Age, I was definitely helpless and
vulnerable. I had a caring mother and an indifferent father. I cried during the
first day of kindergarten as I was thrust into the world of my peers.
Eventually, I tried to blend in by being lost in my own thoughts and silently
observing the erratic behavior of certain others.
The Mercury Age -- (7 to 14 years)
In astrology, mercury represents communication,
quickness and nervousness. During the early school years, children tend to make
connections, to belong to a group of similar peers. You learn to communicate,
to make friends and enemies. As you advance into the early teens, you are more
able to rebel against authority, often by your clothing or hairstyle or music
or your actions.
In my Mercury Age, my family moved from a peaceful
setting at the outskirts of Stevens Point, Wisconsin, to the suburbs of Kansas
City, Kansas, when I was in the middle of fourth grade. Thus, I had to start my
life over, as a newcomer stranger among my peers. Once again, I tried to blend
in by being lost in my own thoughts and silently observing the erratic behavior
of certain others. After the end of fifth grade, my family moved to the suburbs
of Minneapolis, Minnesota, where I once again tried to blend in by being lost
in my own thoughts and silently observing the erratic behavior of certain
others. In those early teenage years, there was plenty of erratic behavior to
observe.
The Venus Age -- (14 to 21 years)
Venus (the Roman goddess of beauty) is the
influence of relationships, love, culture, pleasure and emotions. This is the
age of sensual emotions and attraction to beauty. It's also a period of
creative activity and the forming of deep friendships. Childish behavior fades
and the demands of adulthood loom on the horizon. When we are born, our brains
are a pile of mush. By our mid-teens, the human brain becomes fully assembled
with nerve fibers and insulated with fatty tissues. During the first 21 to 25 years of life, a
slow maturing process takes place. This is why teen-agers do crazy things and
often act like idiots. Unfortunately, some of them never advance beyond the
idiot stage.
In my Venus Age, high school was a drag and
college was freedom at last. In high school, I once again tried to blend in by
being lost in my own thoughts and silently observing the erratic behavior of
certain others. I had a motorcycle and an old Chevy, and spent much of my free
time hanging out in the local pool hall or goofing around in outdoor
neighborhood sports. In college, I majored in math, but had no clue about my
future. I yeaned to be an architect or a mining engineer, but mostly lived in
the present. At age 20, I spent a year in Miami taking college computer courses
-- it was the best 5 years of my life,
The Earth Age -- (21 to 28 years)
The Earth Age is a period of development through
self-evaluation, a coming of age. It's an adjustment to responsibility and
material pursuits. As a young adult, you endeavor to pursue an occupation or
career. This is a period of moderation and balance. It's a rude awakening,
where you tend to put down roots. Major decisions take place. At the end of the
Earth Age, one is often confronted with a crisis, an upheaval leading to a new
beginning.
In my Earth Age, self-evaluation was the norm. I
returned from Miami to Minnesota on my 21st birthday. After several years of
college geared toward computer science, I soon got a job as a computer
programmer in St. Paul. Nine months later, I was drafted into the U.S. Army
during the Vietnam Era. After basic training in Missouri, I spent the remainder
of my two-year commitment at 3rd Army Headquarters in Atlanta, Georgia, as a
data processing analyst. After returning to my civilian job for about six
months, I decided to return to college to get my B.S. and M.S. degrees. I spent
much of my free time carousing and shooting pool in bars. Less than a week
after I finished graduate school, at age 28. I started a job as a computer
analyst in the Minneapolis suburbs, definitely an upheaval and a new beginning
in my life.
The Mars Age -- (28 to 35 years)
The Mars Age is a stressful period as you stabilize
your character and strive to make an imprint in life. Ambition is paramount,
aggressive action takes place -- a desire for personal egocentric and
materialistic success. After years of adjustment and creating a foundation, you
have finally stabilized in character, seeking to succeed.
In my Mars Age, at age 28, I totally changed my
life overnight. No more carousing or gambling or shooting pool. I was now
working full-time, earning a living, being a responsible adult. I advanced from
programmer/analyst for company A to senior programmer/project leader for
company B. At age 30, I was restless for change and moved to Los Angeles as a
senior system analyst for company C, later as lead programmer and general
manager for company D by age 32, followed by becoming an independent contractor.
I bought a house (with pool), drove a Cadillac and got married. Life was
fast-paced, stressful and I had achieved material success. My wife was an
Aries. Ironically, Mars is the ruling planet of Aries. Mars is also the ancient
god of conflict. Perhaps I should have referenced astrology prior to marriage.
The Jupiter Age -- [35 to 42 years)
The Jupiter Age represents acquisition,
expansion and abundance. For many, this is the prime of life, a psychological
maturity. You now have a foundation as a respectable member of the community.
It may also include distant journeys. There is also an inner journey of the
soul, a deeper examination of spirit.
In my Jupiter Age, my wife and I had many
travels -- exploring the local region on weekend jaunts, trips to Mexico,
Hawaii, Tahiti, West Indies, etc. We bought, lived in and sold several houses,
and even lived on a yacht for several months. After five years of marriage, we
divorced. It was back to square one for me. Two weeks after my 42nd birthday, I
left Los Angeles in a camper to become a gold prospector and adventurer in the
Arizona desert. Once again, at the precise end of seven years, my life took a
dramatic turn.
The Saturn Age -- (42 to 49 years)
The Saturn Age represents obstacles,
restrictions and responsibility. It's a period of adapting self-discipline
whereby you become a determined person. It's a crossroad for those who were
fulfilled in earlier stages of life versus those who find themselves in the
path of decline and depression. Some of those who were shaped by society are
now in a position to serve others.
In my Saturn Age, it was definitely a period of
obstacles that prompted me to become a determined person. Starting at age 42, I
went off into the wilderness to find a better way of life, which included
finding a peaceful area to live and finding peace within myself. After about 9
months of wandering around in the wild, I decided to settle down in the desert
of central Arizona and purchased a nice modest home on six acres a mile about
55 miles northwest of Phoenix. I managed to do an occasional computer contract
for old Los Angeles clients (at home via modem, a couple of times back in L.A.
for a couple of days of work). I spent time in the desert, poking around, filing
a couple on mining claims. At age 48, I sold my place with the intention of
moving to a higher elevation to avoid desert heat. When the place was in
escrow, I traveled to northern Arkansas to visit my parents at their retirement
village in the Ozark Mountain foothills.
The Uranus Age -- 49 to 56 years)
The Uranus Age represents change, independence,
and intuition. Rather than a transformation based on restlessness, it is a
transformation based on wisdom and a new state of consciousness. Rather than seeking
accommodation through surroundings, it is more of a revelation of a spontaneous
inner, subconscious, intuitive desire.
In my Uranus Age, my life became a series of
synchronicities and revelations. I intuitively realized that I should remain in
Arkansas rather than relocate somewhere else in Arizona. It was a flash of obvious
truth. Once escrow closed on my Arizona house, I found a rental cabin of 400
wild acres in the hills about 20 miles from my parents and settled in. No
phone, no TV. I instinctively realized I should write some novels. I decided to
write four novels, then try to find a publisher. If they sold well, I would
continue writing -- if not, I would follow my next flash of instinct, whatever
that might be. After I finished the four novels at age 54, I began sending
queries to publishers and agents. As I began to run low on funds from selling
my Arizona home, I found a 10-month computer contract, at age 55, in Memphis
during the 1999 Y2K computer Bug crisis, and gave up the Arkansas cabin for an
apartment in Memphis overlooking the Mississippi River. During this period, I
found a publisher for my 4 novels. Once again, another 7-year stage of my life
took another major turn.
The Neptune Age -- (56 to 63 years)
The Neptune Age is all about transcending from
material pursuits toward enlightenment. One becomes more spiritual in nature,
rising above the need for psychological security, placing less emphasis on
memories of the past, yearning to grow beyond egotistical pleasures.
My Neptune Age began with the ending of material
pursuits. I returned from Memphis to Arkansas at age 56 (in the year 2000), the
beginning of my Neptune Age, and bought a piece of property with my earning
from the Memphis computer contract -- a
nice mobile home on 8 acres of woods, 4 miles from a small town (population
1,400) on a dirt road with no nearby neighbors. It was the beginning of a more
in-depth spiritual journey. I scratched out a living, starting with working on
the 2000 U.S. Census. Then in 2001, I started writing a weekly column for a
couple of regional newspapers and also starting teaching computer courses at a
local college. At age 62, near the end of my Neptune Age, I started receiving
monthly Social Security payments, and quit the newspaper and college jobs.
The Pluto Age -- (63 to 70 years)
The Pluto Age is the final stage of human
progression, where you comprehend the mystery of life. It's a new luminous
beginning, leading to a sense of purpose and destiny.
My Pluto Age began with my full-time retirement
life. Even though I had written 4 novels and some 400 newspaper columns, I
still had the yearning to continue to write. It was a labor of love. I began
writing regular blogs and posting them on various websites. As I accumulated
material on a wide variety of subjects, I decided to create a book containing
44 of my blogs and old newspaper columns. Once it was published, I started
another book of 44 chapters, then another, then another, and so on. By the time
I turned 70 years, the end of my Pluto Age, I had 7 non-fiction books in print,
containing various articles on a variety of topics. Writing was another step in
my human progression, a spiritual journey of discovery and sharing my thoughts
in print. I was alone, with a couple of dogs, writing blogs & books,
growing tomatoes, communing with nature, watching sunsets, contemplating
existence.
The Golden Age -- (70 to oblivion)
As I write this piece, in February of 2015, I am
currently 70 years old, having entered this age in August of 2014. The astrological
analysis ends at age 70. Apparently, the creators of the Ten Stages of Life ran
out of celestial bodies to signify the various stages of life, I have chosen to
dedicate age 70, and beyond, to the Golden Age, which I believe is the period
in one's life when you finally realize that life is very simple and incredibly
complex, both at the same time.
My Golden Age has just begun. Life has been a
struggle, a learning experience, but I now realize it has also been a glorious
ride. In all likelihood everything happens for a reason. I will spend my
remaining years seeking to be at one within this divine existence.
The hardest stages of life are between ages 7
and 70.
Life is good.
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Quote for the Day -- “It's paradoxical that the idea of
living a long life appeals to everyone, but the idea of getting old doesn't
appeal to anyone.” Andy Rooney
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Bret Burquest is the author of 10 books. He
lives in the Ozark Mountains with a couple of dogs and where life is a glorious
adventure, in 7-year intervals, one day at a time.
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